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- Deepen Your Connection with Engaging Conversations – Strengthen your relationship with 150 thoughtfully designed conversation starters. This deck of cards encourages meaningful discussions, helping couples therapy build trust, improve communication, and explore shared dreams in a fun and engaging way.
- Turn Date Nights into Unforgettable Moments – Transform ordinary evenings into special experiences with this interactive card game. Whether you're planning a cozy night in or a fun couples game night, these couples games cards create opportunities for laughter, reflection, and deeper connection.
- A Thoughtful Gift for Every Couple – Whether celebrating an anniversary, wedding, or just looking for a unique present, this relationship-building card deck box makes a perfect gift. Ideal for newlyweds, long-distance couples, or partners wanting to create stronger bonds with this couple card game.
- Encourage Open & Honest Communication – These deep conversation cards help break down barriers and create a safe space for open dialogue. Designed to spark meaningful discussions, they encourage couples to express their thoughts, share experiences, and discover new aspects of their relationship.
- Explore a Variety of Topics Together – With six unique categories—Relationship, Life, Past, Future, Random, and About You—these games for couples provide endless opportunities to learn more about your partner and enjoy deeper, more fulfilling conversations.
- Quality & Thoughtful Design for Lasting Memories – This beautifully designed card deck is built to last, offering couples a reliable way to stay connected. Whether for date nights, quality time, or everyday moments, these conversation starters bring joy and connection to any relationship.
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Product Dimensions | 3.94 x 5.91 x 1.97 inches |
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Item Weight | 6.3 ounces |
Country of Origin | Colombia |
ASIN | B07W1PVNFC |
Item model number | INTIMACY01 |
Manufacturer recommended age | 17 years and up |
Best Sellers Rank | #2,567 in Toys & Games (See Top 100 in Toys & Games) #71 in Dedicated Deck Card Games |
Customer Reviews |
4.6 out of 5 stars |
Manufacturer | BestSelf Co. |
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![]() Date Deck | ![]() Intimacy Deck | ![]() Relationship Deck |
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Go Beyond Small Talk Create quality time together on dates or on the go | Helps Young Couples Grow Close Learn more about each other and how each of you think early on | Strengthen Your Partnership Spark essential lifelong relationship conversations |
A Perfect Tool For Sparking meaningful conversations with your special someone | A Perfect Tool For Learning more about your partner and having deeper conversations | A Perfect Tool For Partners to grow stronger in their long-term committed relationships |
How This Helps You Get beyond small talk and create quality time together | How This Helps You Become closer in your relationship by learning more about how each of you think | How This Helps You Strengthens your existing partnership by sparking essential conversations |
Includes 50 Prompts from 5 categories for exciting, engaging conversations | Includes 150 Prompts from 6 categories including past experiences, life, & random | Includes 150 Prompts from 6 categories including finance, health, work, & personal growth |
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Customers find the intimacy deck effective as a conversation starter, helping them get closer together and providing opportunities to connect emotionally. They enjoy using it for date nights and as a gift for couples, and appreciate the thought-provoking questions that help them learn more about each other. The card deck receives mixed feedback about its depth, with some finding it easy to talk about while others find the questions strange, and several customers consider it not worth the price.
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Customers find these cards effective as conversation starters, helping them get closer together and build deeper emotional connections.
"...They opened up a lot of good conversation and allowed us to even revisit some past difficulties very openly and calmly...." Read more
"...Our communication was very good and these questions are great and you can take your time with them. I love the variety of categories and questions...." Read more
"...questions perfect for beginner relationships while the second half is really intimate and better suited for relationships that have been going for a..." Read more
"Super fun and great conversation starters. Some of the questions don't apply to us but there's still plenty others." Read more
Customers find the game enjoyable, particularly when played with a significant other, with one customer mentioning it's great for reconnecting.
"...It was a REALLY great night. This is second relationship for us both...." Read more
"...It was very enjoyable getting to know each other more and having questions come up that we may not have thought otherwise...." Read more
"...I like the deck it was a an enjoyable experience." Read more
"Super fun and great conversation starters. Some of the questions don't apply to us but there's still plenty others." Read more
Customers find the questions in the deck interesting and thought-provoking, helping them learn more about each other and bringing up topics they want to discuss.
"...We both agreed that we had a wonderful, insightful night with these and will continue to use them." Read more
"...Our communication was very good and these questions are great and you can take your time with them. I love the variety of categories and questions...." Read more
"...these for my gf and I to play these cards are nice the desk ask a variety of questions to get to know your partner better...." Read more
"...The conversation starters are thought-provoking, fun, and really helped us explore topics we hadn’t discussed before...." Read more
Customers find the intimacy deck to be a great gift for couples, particularly for Valentine's Day, though some note it is only suitable for new couples.
"...highly recommend getting these, it is also a great gift for a friend!" Read more
"This is an awesome product and would make a Greek couples gift...." Read more
"...We didn't get though the whole box by any means. Very appropriate for "old" married couples like us, and would also be really good for younger..." Read more
"...It’s still a cool gift and great conversation starter." Read more
Customers find the game great for date nights, particularly for fresh couples, with one customer mentioning it's perfect for a Netflix and chill night.
"My partner and I really enjoyed the game! This is a new must have for date nights." Read more
"...We genuinely look forward to doing a card every night. Highly recommend to all couples, friends etc... if you want to prompt genuine communication..." Read more
"...Good for a home date." Read more
"...Great to use while cooking dinner, doing dishes and one before bed each night!" Read more
Customers like the card deck, finding them awesome and helpful, with one customer noting they are well-structured and another mentioning there are plenty to last a long time.
"Bought these for my gf and I to play these cards are nice the desk ask a variety of questions to get to know your partner better...." Read more
"...few every date night and we both agreed last night that these cards were pretty good!..." Read more
"...There is so many cards that we just occasionally pull a couple every other night and talk...." Read more
"This was missing the category card which it very useful and directions?..." Read more
Customers have mixed opinions about the depth of the conversation cards, with some finding them easy to talk about while others find them strange.
"...was very good and these questions are great and you can take your time with them. I love the variety of categories and questions...." Read more
"...is that some of the questions are a bit triggering or hard to answer without crying haha. So not all fun questions but definitely important ones!" Read more
"...Doesn't take long, it's fun and it's increasing our connection. Categories are relationship, life, intimacy, random, about you and past." Read more
"...This card game has 100% helped me get closer, understand, comprehend, to get closer to my girlfriend and even understand myself too...." Read more
Customers find the card deck overpriced and not worth the money.
"...It's also too expensive for what you get. Should cost at least half due to the questionable quality." Read more
"Okay so I DO LOVE these cards but this is NOT a game. It’s a series of questions that you can ask each other to get to know each other deeper...." Read more
"...I also think they're a bit silly. I like the box it comes in and I like the it gets you talking. Just not what I expected." Read more
"I saw something similar on IG but these were half the price and were same day delivery, which was key as it was date night that night...." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2024Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseI saw something similar on IG but these were half the price and were same day delivery, which was key as it was date night that night. I recently started working nights and it's been a strain on my BF and I. Neither of us are big talkers, so I liked the topic starters shown in some of the pictures and thought it was worth a try. Shipment arrived in perfect time, and I opened it just before we headed out. He immediately liked the idea and grabbed a card from each topic and put them in my bag. It was a REALLY great night. This is second relationship for us both. We're both divorced with children from our last marriages, and we both have triggers and traumas from those messes. Some of the cards helped address a few things that we both needed to talk about and hear. They opened up a lot of good conversation and allowed us to even revisit some past difficulties very openly and calmly. Conversation continued through the drive home. Seriously, we only brought like 5 cards, and they did a lot. We both agreed that we had a wonderful, insightful night with these and will continue to use them.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 12, 2025Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseWhen my husband and I were dating, every date we would carry these cards with us. We lived pretty far from each other but they have us deeper connectivity, understanding of each other, we would talk for HOURS. Our communication was very good and these questions are great and you can take your time with them. I love the variety of categories and questions. That's how we knew we were meant for each other
- Reviewed in the United States on April 1, 2025Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseMy new boyfriend of 7 weeks and I went to a bar and chatted over drinks and took turns drawing cards and we both answered each question. It was very enjoyable getting to know each other more and having questions come up that we may not have thought otherwise. There are 6 categories but it's a little confusing knowing which category is what color. The first half are more light questions perfect for beginner relationships while the second half is really intimate and better suited for relationships that have been going for a while. Completely recommend.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 15, 2024Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseBought these for my gf and I to play these cards are nice the desk ask a variety of questions to get to know your partner better. I like the deck it was a an enjoyable experience.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 17, 2025Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseSuper fun and great conversation starters. Some of the questions don't apply to us but there's still plenty others.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 9, 2024Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseThe BestSelf Intimacy Deck has been an amazing tool for deepening our relationship. The conversation starters are thought-provoking, fun, and really helped us explore topics we hadn’t discussed before. Whether you're a new couple or have been together for years, these cards encourage meaningful conversations and create a comfortable space to talk about everything from values to dreams. It’s been a great way to connect on a deeper level without feeling forced. Highly recommend for couples looking to strengthen their bond!
- Reviewed in the United States on January 5, 2025Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseWe purchased this for our overnight date night. We book a hotel once a month and stay inside, eat pizza, and chill. This game was like marriage counseling in a box! I mean we talked about stuff we never would think to talk about and we have been married for 18 years!
Great for anyone married, dating, engaged, etc. we did an art activity, answered the cards while creating a piece of art together. It was great.
5.0 out of 5 starsWe purchased this for our overnight date night. We book a hotel once a month and stay inside, eat pizza, and chill. This game was like marriage counseling in a box! I mean we talked about stuff we never would think to talk about and we have been married for 18 years!Way better than I imagined!!! Highly recommend
Reviewed in the United States on January 5, 2025
Great for anyone married, dating, engaged, etc. we did an art activity, answered the cards while creating a piece of art together. It was great.
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- Reviewed in the United States on October 31, 2024Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseThe box was smashed and creased along the top (other reviews mentioned this), it has some bad printing and there are a few grammar/ spelling errors. However, there are good conversation-generating questions. Of the 6 categories, "About You" seems to have the best ones. This may not be for couples already in long-term relationships and probably better suited for those starting out. It's also too expensive for what you get. Should cost at least half due to the questionable quality.
3.0 out of 5 starsThe box was smashed and creased along the top (other reviews mentioned this), it has some bad printing and there are a few grammar/ spelling errors. However, there are good conversation-generating questions. Of the 6 categories, "About You" seems to have the best ones. This may not be for couples already in long-term relationships and probably better suited for those starting out. It's also too expensive for what you get. Should cost at least half due to the questionable quality.Pricey, Considering The Quality
Reviewed in the United States on October 31, 2024
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- Michael MatReviewed in the United Arab Emirates on November 1, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Great!
Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseNice to start make couples fight :)
- Cher PReviewed in Canada on February 27, 2025
5.0 out of 5 stars Good Conversation Starter
Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseWe have used these cards a few times, they are great and spark some great discussions. Perfect to bring along for a dinner date and/or over some wine a home.
- OZZI OZReviewed in Australia on September 13, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Nice packaging and quality
Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseProbably not for a middle age couple who know each other well...
- AmmReviewed in the United Kingdom on February 18, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Worth the investment
Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseI think this product is a great gateway to a deeper connection with your significant other. Whether you’re in the early stages of a relationship or been together for years, it’s a great way to getting to know each other on a deeper level. There are six categories : past, random, life, relationship, intimacy and about you. You decide on what subject area you want to talk about and select a card on that area to ask each other about. The box is sturdy and it feels like a quality product. I think it’s worth the price point though others might disagree. Give it a go and see where your conversations take you. It’s true what the intro write up says: “strong relationships are built on strong communication”. Enjoy.
- Jenn KitchingReviewed in Canada on August 20, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars This is awesome!
Size: Core DeckVerified PurchaseThere are six different categories. And 150 prompts, it’s a mixture of different aspects of your relationship that it has questions about and it is giving my husband and I ideas for questions for each other that we had never thought about asking each other before. I’m learning so much about him and vice versa. It’s brought us closer together And it’s such a convenient little box. Definitely recommend!